Introduction to
Interpersonal Communication Theory
Communication Studies 244
Spring 2008

Professor Nancy Baym                                         
Office: 115 Bailey
Phone: 864-9876                                                     
Mailbox: Communication Department Office, 102 Bailey
Email: nbaym@ku.edu (please include 244 in your subject line)
Office Hours:  2-3 Mondays and Fridays and by appointment

Graduate Teaching Assistant Natabhona Mabachi
Office: 5D Bailey Hall
Phone: 864-9888
Mailbox: Communication Department Office, 102 Bailey
Email:  nmabachi@ku.edu
Office Hours: Monday 11-1 and Wednesday 11-12

Course Goals

We often think that common sense provides us with all we need to know about managing our interactions and relationships. Other times we think that the way we communicate is a part of who we are that can not be changed. The goal of this class is to reveal the complexity of our interpersonal communication, and, in so doing, to provide the tools to make conscious choices about your self and your relationships with others. This course also provides a foundation for further coursework in Communication Studies. The format combines lectures and discussion to examine how we are defined by interpersonal communication, how we use interpersonal communication to form impressions of others, and how the ways we communicate with others creates, maintains, and ends close relationships.

Readings

Required Text

 

Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S. J., & Redmond, M. V. (2008). Interpersonal communication: Relating to others (5th ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.

 

Additional readings will be assigned and can be found on the course Blackboard site under Course Documents.

 

Grading Assignments and Policies

 

Attendance and Participation

 

Seats in Communication Studies courses are hard to come by. If you are claiming one, you are expected to show up each and every class meeting having read the readings on time, ready to pay attention, ask questions and participate in discussion.

 

Regular attendance and class participation is expected and required for a good grade in this class. Texts will largely be based on lecture material, including material not in the textbook.  If you must miss a class, it is your responsibility to get notes and copies of handouts from classmates.

 

We expect each of you to listen with an open mind and respect the opinions of others. Furthermore, as it is a communication course, we expect you to demonstrate competent communication. This means we will not tolerate racist, sexist, homophobic, or other such statements that may be demeaning to others. Behavior that interferes with othersÕ ability to focus on the course will also not be permitted. Examples include but are not limited to: talking to each other during class, falling asleep, reading the newspaper, doing puzzles, text messaging, playing with your cell phone, studying for other courses. If you are engaged in these behaviors, you may be asked to leave.

 

Graded Work

 

1) Quickwrites – Quickwrites are unannounced writing assignments completed at the start of class. They may require knowledge of the assigned readings and are a means of assessing course participation. Quickwrites will be offered 12 times and are worth 15 points each. Each student may miss up to two quickwrites without penalty. Students will receive extra credit for completing more than 10 quickwrites. If you are late or absent, you may not make up a missed quickwrite. If you leave class after completing a quickwrite you will not receive credit for that quickwrite.

 

2) Interpersonal Ethnography – Before February 18th, you should conduct an interpersonal communication ethnography.  During one twenty four hour period, you should keep a detailed record of every interpersonal encounter you have.   Every time you have contact with another person that you consider Òinterpersonal,Ó record that event.  YouÕll submit the notebook in which you record your descriptions and a brief paper analyzing your records. Additional details to follow on Blackboard.

 

3) Exams – students will complete three tests and a comprehensive final exam on all lectures, handouts, and readings covered in class. The tests will consist of 50 multiple choice and true/false questions. The first will be worth 50 points, the second will be worth 100, and third and the final will be worth 150 points each.

 

4) Final Paper – students will apply one of a choice of theories to a real-life experience, and then critique both the experience and the theory. More details regarding the theories and paper assignment will be available in the Assignments section on Blackboard.

 

5) Extra Credit – You can receive extra credit by completing 11 or 12 quickwrites for 15 or 30 points accordingly. There will be no other extra opportunities to earn points.

Questioning a grade

 

Ò24/7Ó Rule: Students must wait 24 hours before questioning a grade – students then have 7 days to bring the issue to Dr. BaymÕs attention by filing a written appeal of their grade – after 7 days, the grade is final. DO NOT USE EMAIL. University privacy regulations require that all grading issues be handled in person, on the telephone, and on paper.

 

Grades are updated regularly in Blackboard – however, please keep track of your own records of all assignments graded in class. Make a note of which ones you turned in, just in case there should be any question concerning credit earned. If you receive something back without receiving credit for it on Blackboard, turn it back in to with an attached note indicating that you have not received credit. All material for which you did not receive credit should be turned back in ASAP, and must be returned for credit prior to the final exam

 

Emailing Dr. Baym and Ms. Mabachi: If you are unable to come to our office hours, we encourage you to email us with questions you have about course material, assignments, or exams. Inquiries about grades must be made in person or on the telephone during office hours. Emails asking what you missed when you did not come to class are not appropriate. If you must miss class, you should get that information from peers in the class. You can expect a response to an email within 48 hours. Do not expect us to respond on evenings, nights, or weekends.


Grade Sheet: Use This to Keep Track of Your Grade

 GRADING SCALE:

900 - 1000 = A, 899 - 800 = B, 799 - 700 = C, 699 - 600 = D, <600 = F

These are the final grade point divisions for this course. Grades will not be rounded or assigned on a curve. (In other words, 798 points is a C, while 800 points is a B.) Keeping with these guidelines keeps final grade assignments fair for all.

 

A = 90% -100%  Exemplary performance – greatly exceeded course requirements.

B = 80% - 89%   Advanced performance – exceeds requirements - substantial creativity & effort.

C = 70% - 79%   Average performance – simply meets the minimum requirements of the course.

D = 60% - 69%   Deficient performance – meets some course requirements, but deficient in others.

F = Below 60%  Poor performance – deficient in most or all requirements.

 

 

Type of Assignment

Points Received/Points Possible

Quickwrites

 

      #1 =          /15                 #6 =          /15

 

      #2 =          /15                 #7 =          /15

 

      #3 =          /15                 #8 =          /15

 

      #4 =          /15                 #9 =          /15

 

      #5 =          /15                 #10=         /15

 

                                             #11 (Extra Credit)=   (    /bonus)

 

                                             #12 (Extra Credit)=   (    /bonus)         

 

Quickwrite Total (15%)

/150

                                                         Quickwrite extra credit

(    /bonus)

 

 

Exams (55%)

 

      Exam 1

/50

      Exam 2

/100

      Exam 3

/150

      Final Exam

/150

 

 

Interpersonal Communication Ethnography (15%)

/150

 

 

 Final Paper (25%)

/250

 

 

Total Points Earned

/1000

 


Missed Test, Late Work, Incomplete, Academic Dishonesty, & Disabilities Policies

Under normal circumstances missed exams cannot be made up. If you know you will be unable to make an exam in advance or encounter an extreme emergency, we may be able to make alternative arrangements if you contact me immediately. If you contact me after missing an exam, you will not be able to make up the test without an extraordinary and well-documented reason.

Assignments are due no later than the start of class. Unless there has a been prior agreement worked out with Dr. Baym, late work will not be accepted.

Incompletes will be granted only when these three conditions are met: there is a serious emergency, no additional class attendance is necessary to finish the course, and the extension is cleared with me before the final class period.

 

Plagiarism and other practices of academic misconduct will result in a lowered grade or 0 points for the assignment and possibly the course, and will be reported to the college for possible further disciplinary action at the college and university levels. Penalties at those levels can include academic probation and expulsion.

University Senate Rules and Regulations (USRR) 2.6.1 provides the following definition of student academic misconduct:  Academic misconduct by a student shall include, but not be limited to, disruption of classes; threatening an instructor or fellow student in an academic setting, giving or receiving of unauthorized aid on examinations or in the preparation of notebooks, themes, reports or other assignments; knowingly misrepresenting the source of any academic work; unauthorized change of grades; unauthorized use of University approvals or forging of signatures; falsification of research results, plagiarizing of another's work; violation of regulations or ethical codes for the treatment of human and animal subjects; or otherwise acting dishonestly in research.

Simply put, all work you turn in must be your own. Ideas that came from others must be credited to them, whether through quotation or citation. If you click on Òavoiding plagiarismÓ at http://www.writing.ku.edu/students/docs/guides.shtml  you will have a useful starting place if you are unsure what exactly constitutes the misuse of sources that leads to charges of plagiarism.

 

Turnitin.com
 

The plagiarism monitoring website turnitin.com is utilized in this course to ensure proper    citation and originality of student work.  An electronic copy of the required paper will be turned in to http://www.turnitin.com. You must submit your paper to www.turnitin.com by the time you submit the paper in class (you are always welcome to turn it in early).  If a paper is not submitted to www.turnitin.com it will receive no points.

Instructions for using www.turnitin.com are posted on the Course Blackboard site.

Taping Class: Course materials prepared by the instructor, together with the content of all lectures and review sessions presented by the instructor are the property of the instructor. Video and audio recording of lectures and review sessions without the consent of the instructor is prohibited. On request, the instructor will usually grant permission for students to audiotape lectures, on the condition that these audiotapes are only used as a study aid by the individual making the recording. Unless explicit permission is obtained from the instructor, recordings of lectures and review sessions may not be modified and must not be transferred or transmitted to any other person, whether or not that individual is enrolled in the course.

Students With Disabilities: The staff of Services for Students with Disabilities (SSD), 135 Strong, 785-864-2620 (v/tty), coordinates accommodations and services for KU courses.  If you have a disability for which you may request accommodation in KU classes and have not contacted them, please do as soon as possible. Please also see me privately in regard to this course.

The WriterÕs Roosts: I encourage you to take advantage of KUÕs writing centers, known as the Writer's Roosts. These are places for students to talk about their writing with trained peer consultants. When you visit, bring your work in progress and an idea of what you would like to work on--organization, support, documentation, editing, etc.  The Roosts are open in several different locations across campus; check the website at www.writing.ku.edu for current locations and hours. The Roosts welcome both drop-ins and appointments, and there is no charge for their services. For more information, please call 864-2399 or send an e-mail to writing@ku.edu

 

 

 


Course Schedule

Friday January 18:      WhatÕs A Theory?

Friday January 25:      Interpersonal communication              Ch. 1

Messages and Social Context

Monday January 28:   Verbal communication                        Ch. 6

Friday February 1:      Nonverbal communication                  Ch. 7

Monday February 4:   Communication Medium

Friday February 8:      Metacommunication

Monday February 11:          FIRST TEST

Friday February 15:    Social Norms

Monday February 18:             Gender                                                IPC ETHNOGRAPHY DUE

Friday February 22:    Culture                                                            Ch. 4

Messages and Interpersonal Understanding

Monday February 25: Understanding Messages                    Ch. 3

Friday February 29!:   Personal Identity                                 Ch. 2

Monday March 3:       Social Identity

Friday March 7:          Listening                                             Ch. 5

Monday March 10:   SECOND TEST

Communication in Relationships

Friday March 14:        Relational Development                      Chs. 9 and 10

SPRING BREAK

Monday March 24:     Managing Openness and Privacy        pp. 54-64
                                                                                                Afifi (2003)

Friday March 28:        Relational Dialectics                            pp. 298-299
                                                                                                Braithwaite & Baxter (1995)

Monday March 31:     Cross-Sex Friendships                        pp. 278-279

Friday April 4:            Family Relationships                           pp. 350-358

Monday April 7:         Social Networks and Exchange           pp. 296-298

Friday April 11:        THIRD TEST

Monday April 14:       Social Support

Friday April 18:          Conflict Management                          Ch. 8

Monday April  21:      Deception                                            Ch. 11
                                                                                                Parks et al. (2002)

Friday April 25:          Power                                                  pp. 269-274

Monday April 28:       Abuse                                                  pp. 330-334

Friday May 2:                         Ending Relationships                          pp. 335-347

Monday May 5:          In Class Review Session

Final Exam:               Friday, May 16, 1:30-4:00, 100 Smith